After all, everything was good before. " And it may be that you talk in different languages of love. In the period of love, people talk in all languages, without thinking, using them, they just get at random, communicating with their loved ones.
After the peak of falling in love, everyone begins to communicate with their couple in their own language. And it is very important that you understand the language of love of your partner. For example, my language of love is gifts, when I want to do something pleasant to my beloved, I immediately think of a gift for him.
My husband's language is help, if he wants to show signs of attention and express his love he begins to help me. All people have different ways. Therefore, you need to communicate with a person in his language, so that relationships will not deteriorate in the future. Each person can have from one to three languages of love.
How do you determine in which language your partner communicates?
And this can be done on the following indicators:
- each person gives the beloved the most expensive for himself. Look at what your partner is offering you.
- Pay attention to what your partner is putting his soul into, what he likes in reality, and not in words
- the partner's language can still be determined by what he deprives you if he wants to punish you for something
- Your language can be determined by what most brings you pleasure and convenience
What are the languages of love?
So, these are the languages of love:
1) Gifts - for a person is not important the value of a gift to him is important attention, the expression of his feelings.
2) Help - it is important for a person to help you, but only as he sees fit, and not as you ask. If you ask such a person for help, give reasons for your request.
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languages of love[/caption]3) Time is the most precious thing for such a person, this time, presented only to him, spent alone. No matter what you do together, the main thing is to be alone, without strangers.
4) Touch - the most important thing here is any kind of touching, kissing, even if there is no continuation after that.
5) Compliments - here the most important thing is words of encouragement, gratitude even for a trifle. It is very important to express your feelings in words, about what you hear (affectionately call your loved one, you can think up a gentle nickname), you see (everything you see attractive), feel (smell, taste, full acceptance of a partner). Read the article "Compliments. How to take them properly . "
6) Soulful conversation - it is very important for this person to share with you the most intimate, share plans for the future, prospects, but does not like to talk about the present. It is desirable to adjust to the timbre of the voice and pose of the partner (do not cross your arms on your chest, indicating that the conversation is not desirable)
7) Sex - the expression of their feelings shows during intimacy. And for him, intimate relationships are very important.
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