We all, something is interfering. It hinders on the way to the goal or better to say - fortunately. It is difficult to live the present, the present day or the moment. I want to be good for many ... For this you need to work, work, work on yourself. It is not simple. Someone is going to forgive someone five years, someone more. But how good it is to let go of the past, how wonderful it is!
How cool it would be not to waste time on obvious things that would change life immediately and without delay.
Let's look at 13 things that should be abandoned to feel the long-awaited happiness and freedom:
1. Be free from the need to always prove your case.
There are so many of us among us who, even under the threat of breaking up beautiful relationships, causing pain and creating stress, cannot accept and accept a different point of view. It's not worth it.
2. Release the control.
Be ready to give up the need to constantly monitor everything that happens to you - situations, events, people, etc. Be it family and friends, colleagues or strangers on the street - just let them be what they are.
3. Release the feeling of guilt.
Get rid of the need to blame others for what you have or do not have, for what you feel or do not feel. Stop spraying your energy and take full responsibility for your life.
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unnecessary things in our life[/caption]4. Stop the negative conversation with you.
How many people harm themselves, only because they allow negative thoughts and emotions to control their lives. Do not trust everything that your logical, reasonable mind says. You are better and more capable than you really think.
5. Get out of the habit of complaining.
A person's constant need to complain about a lot of things - people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. No one can make you unhappy, no situation can upset you. It's not the situation that causes you or those feelings.
6. Get off the mark.
Stop criticizing people who are different from you, and events that do not meet your expectations. We are all different.
7. Free yourself from the need to impress others.
Stop pretending and be what you are not really. Remove the mask, accept and love your true self.
8. Stop resisting change.
Change is normal, they are necessary for us to move from point A to point B. Changes help us to change both our lives and the lives of others for the better.
9. Do not put shortcuts.
Stop labeling people and events that you do not know about or just do not understand. And gradually open your mind to the new.
10. Release the past.
We know, it's complicated. Especially when the past likes more than the present and the future little scares. But you need to accept the fact that the present is all that you have.
11. Free yourself from fears.
Fear is just an illusion, it does not exist - you created it. All this is in your mind. Change your internal attitude - and the external will fall into place.
12. Stop justifying yourself.
Expose the excuses and send them to retire. Most often, we limit ourselves to many excuses.
13. Stop living life with the expectations of others.
Too many people live a life that does not belong to them, only to live. They live their lives according to what others consider best for them, they do what their parents, friends, teachers, government and society expect of them. They ignore their inner voice, their inner vocation. They are so busy pursuing the expectations of others that they lose control of their lives. They forget what brings them happiness, what they really want ... and in the end they forget about themselves.
]]>You have one life. It happens right here and now. Live as you like, listen to your inner voice and do not let the opinions of other people distract you from your path.