Fifteen principles of a happy family are described below, which you can familiarize yourself with and acquaint your family by gathering together for a family council.
1. Every member of a happy family seeks to be an integral part of it
A family does not develop if some of its members do not want to become part of their family. After all, being a family means being one team - together in sorrow and joy. Every member of the family needs to make a conscious decision to be part of it, that is, to be considerate and caring towards the rest of the family.
2. Happy families build strong social ties
Families as a kind of team, of course, need to stick together, but in addition they must build no less strong social relationships. When meeting with neighbors, you should not just say hello or wave your hand, but stop and talk with them. Whole family visit public events and make new and interesting friends. Learn about the friends of each member of your family - at least know their names and personality traits or the characteristics of their lives, so that you not only understand who your family spends time with, but also ask deeper and more meaningful questions than questions like "You had a good time?".
3. Families stay together in good, and in bad situations
You do not have the right to leave your family because there are problems. Yes, at some point your child may find that parents become too intrusive, and want to hide in their room away from their attention; or you yourself can be harassed by the unbearable behavior of your son or daughter, overflowing the cup of your patience, but, however, you must stick together and overcome difficulties together. You can not be a family only in joy.
4. People in happy families have the opportunity to be themselves
The fact that people are part of the same family does not mean that they all should have the same interests as one. If your eldest son likes to play football, you do not have to force the younger one to practice this sport, especially if he likes drawing more. Although joint activities, such as hiking or vacation trips, are always useful, do not force your family members to be interested in what they do not have a natural inclination, do not do it just because all other family members adore this occupation.
5. In happy families, everyone spends valuable time with each other
Speaking about the campaigns and the joint holidays, it should be noted that the time that the whole family spends for their benefit is crucial for the acquisition of family happiness. You can not feel happy family, if you are not together! Useful time does not necessarily mean spending on entertainment or visiting museums. It can be spent simply having dinner together once a week or doing cleaning in the house by all family on Saturdays.
6. The members of the happy family are struggling for each other
Have you seen films in which the elder brother intercedes for the younger? Very touching and exciting, is not it? That's how it is in happy families. Each one protects one another. Everyone is struggling for the other members of the family. We need to love each other every day (no matter how unpleasant and perhaps even unworthy of love some members of the family sometimes seem) and sacrifice themselves and their time for the sake of others.
7. In happy families, everyone is responsible for their own happiness
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Happy Family[/caption]You can not expect that someone else will make you happy. This applies to friends, spouses and family members. A person should be able to find happiness in himself, even before he brings something into his family. The presence of dependence on other people only means that you make unreasonable demands on them and, possibly, prevent them from finding their own happiness. If each family member begins to focus on his own happiness, then he will fill his family with happiness. Think about how pleasant family dinners can be, when everyone is smiling and no one is sad.
8. Happy families keep these promises
If a person can not rely on a family, then he can not rely on anyone. If you promised that you will sit in the front row at a children's party, you should fulfill your promise. If a child has promised his parents that he will improve his grades, he should try his best! Keep your promises to family members so that they consider you a reliable and trustworthy person. On the other hand, try to give such promises that you can fulfill. Do not jump above your head in an effort to prove that you are a worthy member of the family.
9. Members of happy families are distinguished by patience
Do not try to get everything at once. Changes take time, and family members must understand this and be patient like no other. Your child, for example, may take some time to realize the need to fold and clean up your laundry after washing. Some family members may need a few reminders that they need to lift their wet towels from the floor in the bathroom. To get angry and shout is completely ineffective; Be patient and kind, and your family will begin to change to help you and the whole family as a whole.
10. Happy families forgive each other
When people stumble and make mistakes, they sometimes have to beg for forgiveness from friends or acquaintances, but they do not hold grudges in each other's families. Family members are those people who are with you day by day, shoulder to shoulder. They know you better than anyone, and they know that you are also a person, and every person in this life makes mistakes. Therefore, a family that really loves you will understand if you stumble, forgive and will continue to love you.
11. Members of happy families use words of care and support in communication
In such families do not use harsh, pungent and offensive words. There it is not accepted to quarrel or whine to convey your point of view. In communication, members of happy families use words of care and support. This contributes to the creation of an atmosphere of love in which every member of the family knows that he can calmly express his opinion and he will be heard without quarrels and scandals and can take everything he says to himself at face value and not look for veiled criticism or reproaches in words.
12. In a happy family, everyone shares their emotions
Everyone wants to have their own space in the house, but one can not completely close. In happy families, people share their emotions. This helps to create mutual understanding because each member of the family always knows what his relatives feel. If there is good news, the family rejoices with them. If there is a problem that one person can not solve, it can be shared with him by all family members. Your family is your best support system, use it and be ready to help others.
13. In a happy family, everyone is sick for each other
Family members are ill for each other. They hold fists for someone who passes a difficult exam or speaks at a conference with his report. They encourage each other when confidence is needed , and put a shoulder when something goes wrong.
14. All members of a happy family help each other
Family life is more than doing household tasks in turns, although this is also very important! Family members must help each other in all cases of life. When all the responsibilities for the house are distributed and everyone is responsible for their part of the work, one will not feel oppressed, having loaded all the burden of household duties on their shoulders. At the same time, family assistance can consist of anything from emotional support to the joint search for car keys in a restless and bustling morning.
15. In happy families, a sense of gratitude and gratitude is developed
When members of your family are helping you together in a certain way, do not forget to express gratitude! The fact that you are related and live together does not mean that you can accept the help of other family members as something self-evident. Always tell your family how much you appreciate and love it.
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